Writing erotica has made me realise that I have way more fetishes than I realised and that one of these is WOMEN GETTING ALL WET IN THE RAIN AND THEIR DRESS STICKING TO THEM.
Seriously, two of my three published novels and my current Work In Progress all have a scene where the heroine gets completely drenched in a sudden downpour, culminating in lots of spanking and/or sex.
Anyway, it really made me think about how I feel about Daddy / girl play.
It took me nearly 8 years of being on the scene before I felt ready to play with this sort of dynamic. For ages, I wouldn't even countenance it, wouldn't even allow myself to think about it. I worried about it being perceived as some kind of creepy Electra complex and/or underage sex thing (even though I knew - objectively - that it was neither of those things).
I'm something of a fan of corner time. Whilst it's not my *favourite* thing, I do enjoy the humiliation... the submission (I mean, it's basically like bondage without the ropes, right?)... the almost literal sense of belittling.
A lot of people in my life don't know that I'm kinky.
So, for instance: they don't know that I have bought them presents or taken them out for dinner with money I've made from writing spanking romances.
They don't know that I met my husband on an online spanking forum. They don't know that we play with other people, or that we're polyamorous (it's quite possible they've never even heard of that word). And they certainly don't know that the nice girl who seems to be around a lot is our girlfriend who we're both crazy in love with.
Basically, you could say the name 'Gracie Malling' at them and they'd just blink at you, like 'I'm sorry - who?'.